Have you ever stopped to think about the story you tell yourself about money? đ¤ I didnâtâfor years. And looking back, I can see how much it controlled the way I earned, saved, and even spent money.
Here was my story: âYou have to work really hard to earn moneyâand even harder to deserve it.â
So thatâs what I did. I worked really hard. I hustled, I sacrificed, and sure, I made money. But it often felt like a struggle, and I couldnât figure out why.
Then it hit me: Success wasnât just about how hard I worked or how much I earned. It was about being mindful of the stories I was telling myself about money.
đĄ The truth is, many of us are unconsciously holding ourselves back.
These money storiesâoften buried deep in our subconsciousâdictate the way we think, act, and feel about wealth. If you believe money is scarce, your actions will reflect that. You might hesitate to invest in yourself, avoid taking risks, or overwork yourself to exhaustion.
Itâs not that youâre deliberately sabotaging yourself; itâs that your beliefs are running the show in the background, like a hidden script. đ But once you become aware of these stories, you can begin to rewrite themâand step into your greatest potential in all areas of your life. đ
Hereâs what Iâve learned about rewriting that script for both financial and personal success:
1ď¸âŁ Get clear on your current money story.
đŹ What do I believe about money?
đ¤ Do I think money is hard to come by?
đ Do I believe wealthy people are selfish?
𤡠Do I feel guilty when I make or spend money?
Awareness is step one. You canât change what you donât recognize.
2ď¸âŁ Challenge the limiting beliefs.
đĄ Working hard isnât the only way to earn money. Smart, aligned actionâcombined with education and respect for moneyâis just as important.
đ Money is neutralâitâs how you use it that matters. It can fund your dreams, support your family, and create opportunities for others.
3ď¸âŁ Adopt a mindset of abundance.
đĄ Tell yourself, âMoney flows to me because I create value.â
đ Remember that financial fitness (budgeting, investing, and learning) compounds over time.
4ď¸âŁ Define success on your terms.
đ§ Success is about creating the freedom to live in alignment with your values.
đ For me, that means growing my business, supporting my loved ones, and building opportunities for othersâall while respecting my well-being.
5ď¸âŁ Take practical steps to respect money.
đ Learn the basics: Understand saving, investing, and budgeting.
𧞠Track your spending: Know where your money goes.
đŻ Set goals: Define what financial success looks like for you.
When I began to change my money story, I didnât just feel betterâI saw real changes in my bottom line. đľ Success stopped being tied solely to effort and started being about intentionality, alignment, and smart choices.
So, let me ask you:
đŹ Whatâs your money story? Is it helping you succeedâor holding you back?
The good news? You can rewrite it. And when you do, everything changes. đ