Have you ever stopped to think about the story you tell yourself about money? 🤔 I didn’t—for years. And looking back, I can see how much it controlled the way I earned, saved, and even spent money.
Here was my story: “You have to work really hard to earn money—and even harder to deserve it.”
So that’s what I did. I worked really hard. I hustled, I sacrificed, and sure, I made money. But it often felt like a struggle, and I couldn’t figure out why.
Then it hit me: Success wasn’t just about how hard I worked or how much I earned. It was about being mindful of the stories I was telling myself about money.
💡 The truth is, many of us are unconsciously holding ourselves back.
These money stories—often buried deep in our subconscious—dictate the way we think, act, and feel about wealth. If you believe money is scarce, your actions will reflect that. You might hesitate to invest in yourself, avoid taking risks, or overwork yourself to exhaustion.
It’s not that you’re deliberately sabotaging yourself; it’s that your beliefs are running the show in the background, like a hidden script. 🎭 But once you become aware of these stories, you can begin to rewrite them—and step into your greatest potential in all areas of your life. 🌟
Here’s what I’ve learned about rewriting that script for both financial and personal success:
1️⃣ Get clear on your current money story.
💬 What do I believe about money?
🤔 Do I think money is hard to come by?
😠 Do I believe wealthy people are selfish?
🤷 Do I feel guilty when I make or spend money?
Awareness is step one. You can’t change what you don’t recognize.
2️⃣ Challenge the limiting beliefs.
💡 Working hard isn’t the only way to earn money. Smart, aligned action—combined with education and respect for money—is just as important.
🌍 Money is neutral—it’s how you use it that matters. It can fund your dreams, support your family, and create opportunities for others.
3️⃣ Adopt a mindset of abundance.
💡 Tell yourself, “Money flows to me because I create value.”
📈 Remember that financial fitness (budgeting, investing, and learning) compounds over time.
4️⃣ Define success on your terms.
🧘 Success is about creating the freedom to live in alignment with your values.
🌟 For me, that means growing my business, supporting my loved ones, and building opportunities for others—all while respecting my well-being.
5️⃣ Take practical steps to respect money.
📚 Learn the basics: Understand saving, investing, and budgeting.
🧾 Track your spending: Know where your money goes.
🎯 Set goals: Define what financial success looks like for you.
When I began to change my money story, I didn’t just feel better—I saw real changes in my bottom line. 💵 Success stopped being tied solely to effort and started being about intentionality, alignment, and smart choices.
So, let me ask you:
💬 What’s your money story? Is it helping you succeed—or holding you back?
The good news? You can rewrite it. And when you do, everything changes. 🚀
